Dan, chill your head a little.
I never promised a gathering last weekend. What I asked you guys last weekend was 'would you guys come back IF I hosted another gathering'. You said yes, Chris said yes, and Frankie said yes. So the next thing I did was post on SRK to let you guys inform that I was hosting another gathering. Chris and Frankie both replied to me showing their interest, while I heard nothing from you until late last night.
I need to re-iterate that again, that it's a capacity issue. You wouldn't want twenty people to randomly show up at your house without notice, would you? It's a matter of basic courtesy as well as allowing me to plan what games to set-up ahead of time. The gathering today was intended to be open to all people in the region... not just you. I like to play by the rules, and am not going to just shaft people the way Lee-K did just because I don't know who they are.
EDIT:
Luckily for you, one person just dropped out. So you can show up if you still wish. I sent this message to you on irc as well, so it's your loss if you didn't see it.